This Fall has been particularly challenging for me. There has been a lot of stress, and a never ending cold/sinus thing it has at times felt like the weight of the world is on my shoulders. I am a positive, happy person and I have been disappointed in myself for not focusing on the good stuff and instead dwelling on things that I belived I was not giving my best to. I have let some narrow-minded people make me doubt myself and my capabilities. I think as women who try to “do it all” we often forget to take time for ourselves, and to truly acknowledge all that we do for those we love.
While some parts of my life have been hard, others have been so rewarding and remarkable. The friends I have made through blogging have thought me so much and freely given of their time and expertise, I cannot thank them enough. This week I have spent hours talking with a childhood friend and went for dinner with one of the most motivating women I know. It reminded me that I am blessed with wonderful friends, a loving husband and two amazing boys. In the end, that is what matters in life; not a promotion and certainly not a paycheck. As Christmas draws closer and 2012 nears its end I have been reflecting on this year and it has made me realize just how thankful I am for all of the support I have in my life.
Who do you lean on for support?
Definitely my Mom and my best friends…I’ve known one my entire life (our moms are friends), and the other two since grade 9. They are all childless, but are amazingly supportive and understanding of my new role as mom.
You’re so right – so often we look at what others have versus what we don’t. If we all focused on what we DO have already I think the population would be much happier in general :)
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So true Sarah! Isn’t it wonderful to have good friends :)
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My online friends are amazing. many of them I have met in person and we have common likes, issues etc and they are always there when I need support
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I have a great husband who is my biggest support. I also have some long time friends that are awesome. I also have online friends that are pretty fantastic. ;)
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Having a great partner does make all the difference. Friends are great but having someone to come home to everyday that makes all the difference.