This week I feel as though I have been bombarded by articles, advertisements and promos about Mother’s Day. So many that I feel overwhelmed. I was asked four times today what I am doing for Mother’s Day. Um, well, I don’t know. I am working, I know that. My mom has invited herself for dinner at my house. So, I guess that is what I am doing. And, I am happy with that. More than happy. I am not sure if it is because I am a working mom, or because I have a wonderful husband who lets me take time for “me” whenever possible, or maybe because I feel so blessed to have my two boys I am not too worried about how we spend the day.
Recently, a friend remarked that she is always the one preparing dinner for her mom on Mother’s Day and wishes that she could have a night off. I nodded in agreement, but inside thought just how happy I am to make Sunday about my mom and celebrate her. She is a true miracle. A survivor of cancer twice (two different kinds), I feel lucky that she is here this Mother’s Day. Here to share in the joy of my boys, here to have a meal with us, here to read her grandchildren a bedtime story. While I support the many women who have chosen this year to not observe Mother’s Day for many reasons (#NoMother’sDay), I am going to find a way to honour my mom because there will be a day when she is not here but right now she is and that is truly a reason to celebrate.
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